Derby daughter thanks hospice nurses and encourages others to support end-of-life charity

Published on: Monday, 30th January 2023
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Catherine Mears

When Dorothy Johnson was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin lymphoma, she knew she wanted to be at home for her final days.

Her daughter, Catherine Mears, explained how Treetops Hospice nurses were invaluable in fulfilling her wish. She said: “Mum moved to Derby in her twenties with her job at the Inland Revenue Service. Mum and dad, Fred, were both keen walkers and met through a walking group in Derby. They were quite opposite really.  Mum was quiet and academic. She liked things like history and learning languages and castles. Dad was more outgoing. But they were happily married for 50 years and had two children, myself and my sister Elaine.”

In 2004, Dorothy started to feel ill and tired in all the time. She was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin lymphoma, a cancer which affects the body’s immune system.

“Everything happened quite quickly. Mum had chemotherapy and was in hospital for a spell, but she definitely preferred to be at home. She was living downstairs, and my Dad was sleeping on a camp bed in the dining room to take care of her.   

“Elaine and I were both working full time so we would go round to help but dad did everything really - caring for mum, cooking, washing. Even when she was in hospital, he wouldn’t miss a day visiting her.

“He did really well but dad was in his late seventies at that time, so we knew he needed help.”

The family contacted Risley-based Treetops Hospice who arranged for Hospice at Home nurses to come and help care for Dorothy at night

“Having the Treetops nurses there meant Dad could get a decent night’s sleep and wasn’t worrying. He could then cope a bit better and face the next day.  

“Mum died sooner than we expected in May 2005 aged 77. We were all there with her at home. I think if the Treetops nurses hadn’t helped, Dad would have struggled, and it would have got to a crisis point. The nurses were invaluable to us, especially my dad.”

Catherine, 59, is sharing her story to help promote the Treetops Lottery Super Draw when, in March, the top prize money is doubled to £2,000. 

“I like to donate to local charities and Treetops Hospice is such a good cause. I think if you've got a chance of winning something as well, it makes it just a little bit more special.  

“I won the Lottery jackpot last year and it was a lovely surprise. I’d recommend playing to anyone!” 

Treetops is hoping that the Super Draw will raise £13,000 in 2023 with proceeds helping the hospice to provide free nursing care and emotional support for adults with life-limiting illnesses and those who’ve been bereaved.

Rebecca Lee-Jones, Treetops Lottery Manager, said: “We have to raise more than £4.3m to run the hospice every year and must raise 70% of this ourselves through charitable donations and fundraising activities, including our lottery.

“Entering the annual Super Draw is a fantastic way to support the hospice. You can purchase your entries through the post or online and you might win a cash prize. All proceeds from every ticket sold help fund vital services and makes a real difference to local people and families living across Derby, Derbyshire and Nottinghamshire.”

Super Draw tickets must be in by Wednesday 29th March, with the draw taking place on Friday 31st March. The Super Draw top prize is £2,000, second prize is £500, third prize £300, fourth prize £100, and there are 15 smaller prizes of £30. 

Super Draw tickets are available to purchase online at www.treetops.org.uk/superdraw

The Treetops Hospice Lottery has raised almost £8.5m for the end-of-life charity since it began in 2021.

This year, Treetops Hospice is celebrating 40 years of caring for people and their families in the local community. During this time, the hospice has  supported thousands of patients with end-of-life nursing care and bereavement counselling.

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